Put your damn smart phone down


THE SOVEREIGN SELLER EMAIL #35

The Sovereign’s Hour: What Your Time Is Actually Worth

Sunday, May 3rd, 2026 | Lauderdale By The Sea, FL | 7:11 AM

I love my smartphone. I also resent it.

I spend too much time on it - not during the day, when I’m working, but at night, when it’s competing now with the TV for my attention. Even during my favorite live sporting events I find myself checking social media and texting.

But here’s one thing I’ve mastered: I don’t let it interrupt me. Ever.

My phone lives on Do Not Disturb.

I rarely take unscheduled calls.

I check texts on my schedule, not theirs.

Here's the thing, I'm not "on call". I'm not an emergency room physician who is saving lives. Rather, I am a salesperson, just like you. And if a client needs me they are going to have to email me, or text me. And I'll get back to them when I check.

Because my ringer is off, my notifications are off.

I don't even allow those pesky red numbers to appear on my messages or email apps.

Because I value my time. I direct my day.

This is also about positioning. When clients see you value your time, you earn respect.

Let's turn it around, imagine if you called on a prospect and they immediately took your call?

They texted you back right away. They responded to your email in seconds.

An experienced salesperson would detect something was off.

This person is too easy to get in touch with.

If they are this free, it's likely they are not in charge of making any important decisions.

Because people in charge of big decisions have to become ruthless about managing their time, and who they speak with.

You should start acting like that too.

If That Bothered You, You’re Going to Hate Dan Kennedy

Dan Kennedy is one of the most influential direct-response copywriters and marketing strategists of the last forty years. He’s written more than a dozen books in his “No B.S.” series, charged tens of thousands per sales letter plus royalties, and built a multi-million-dollar empire around teaching small business owners how to sell.

He does all of it without a cell phone. Without email. Without social media.

He primarily conducts business by fax.

It might sound extreme, but it’s a strategic decision about who gets to interrupt his day.

I’m not telling you to get a fax machine. I’m telling you the reason Kennedy can charge what he charges is the same reason he can run a business by fax: he has calculated, to the dollar, what his time is worth. And that number is the filter for everything.

He calls it your Base Earning Target.

Run the Math on Yourself

Take your annual income target. Let’s use $200,000.

Divide by 220 working days a year. That’s $909 per day. Divide by an 8-hour workday: $114 per hour.

That’s the lazy version, and Kennedy argues it’s wrong.

Nobody is productive for eight straight hours. Be honest about your real output - the hours when you’re actually thinking, writing, prospecting, or selling. Kennedy puts that figure at roughly a third of the day.

Three productive hours.

That moves your real billable rate to around $341 an hour.

Now run a few line items through that number:

A 12-minute coffee chat with a colleague: $68.

A one-hour internal meeting with no agenda: $341.

A 90-minute drive to a discovery call with a prospect who hasn’t qualified themselves: $511.

A morning lost to inbox triage: more than most reps clear in a week of commission.

You’re already spending this money. You just haven’t been getting an itemized bill.

The Sovereign’s Hour

Three moves to take it back.

Move 1: Calculate the Number

Write the figure down. Put it where you can see it - the lock screen on the smartphone you’re trying to control is fine.

Without the number, the rest of this is theory. With the number, every “got a minute?” becomes a transaction with a price tag.

Move 2: Filter Your Prospects Through It

Here’s where my earlier line about random cold calls comes back.

The prospect who takes a random call from a salesperson they’ve never heard of, working for a company they’ve never heard of - that prospect isn’t busy. By definition, they’re available.

Available prospects skew low-budget, low-authority, or low-priority. The buyers worth your hours - the ones with real budgets and real decision rights - don’t sit by the phone hoping a stranger dials in. They’re insulated by gatekeepers, calendars, and earned access. They guard their time the way you should be guarding yours.

Sovereign reps don’t run random cold lists. They earn the right to be received. Sales letters in the mail. Trigger-based outreach. Warm referrals. Content that builds a point of view before the first call. (I broke down the exact framework for this in an earlier issue.)

Stop selling to anyone who will take your call.

Start selling to people whose calendars resemble the one you’re trying to build.

That’s where the money is.

This is the entire argument behind White Collar Prospecting. If you haven't grabbed the free book yet, here it is.

Move 3: Defend the Calendar

Here are the leaks I see most often in reps’ weeks, priced at the $341 rate above:

The standing internal meeting that exists because it has always existed. Cost: $341 a week. Every week. Forever.

The “quick sync” Slack message that becomes a 25-minute call. Cost: $142 - plus whatever you were doing before it broke your focus.

The “let’s just hop on” with a prospect who refuses to answer two qualifying questions over email. Cost: $341 plus drive time, for a meeting that should have been a no.

The notifications. The drop-ins. The Monday rah-rah. The “culture” lunch. Every one of them carries a price.

Defending the calendar is not rude. It’s the precondition for being worth what you say you want to make.

And if your manager spends their week making meetings instead of removing them, that’s a data point about whether you’re working at the right company.

Who Owns Your Hours Owns Your Career

Here’s the part most reps miss.

The reps who get downsized, stalled, or stuck on the same number for three years aren’t lazy. Most of them work harder than the reps pulling away. They just spend their hours at someone else’s rate - the manager’s rate, the prospect’s rate, the inbox’s rate, Slack’s rate.

When your calendar belongs to everyone but you, you’re renting your time to people who never earned it.

Kennedy figured this out decades before the smartphone existed. The fax machine isn’t the lesson. The discipline is.

A sovereign rep owns the hours.

The hours own everything else.

To your success,

Shane

P.S. Want to run your own math? Download my free Sovereign Hour Calculator

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